Women who have absolute confidence are women that trust, love and respect themselves. They believe in their abilities to achieve what they want.
Here are 7 things to STOP doing:
1) They don’t obsess over the opinions of others
Women with absolute confidence don’t get caught up in criticism or negative feedback. While they do care about the well-being of others and aim to make a positive impact in the world, they don’t worry about negative opinions that they can’t do anything about. They know that their true friends will accept them as they are, and they don’t concern themselves with the others.
2) They don’t need constant approval and re-assurance
Women with absolute confidence don’t need to get recognition or feel reassured by other people –they give it to themselves. They know that life isn’t fair and sometimes things won’t go the way they hoped. C’est la vie! While they can’t control what goes on in our external world, they do their best to be in control of their internal world, knowing that how they feel about themselves is more important than how others feel about them.
3) They don’t avoid feeling fear
Women with absolute confidence don’t let fear dictate their lives. They know that the things they are afraid of doing are often the exact thing that they need to do in order to transform into the person they really are.
4) They don’t live in their comfort zone
Women with absolute confidence don’t stay stuck there because they know this is a place where people are unfulfilled, unhappy and dreams never come true. They actively pursue a feeling of discomfort, because they know stretching themselves is mandatory for their success.
5) They don’t make comparisons
Women with absolute confidence know that they are not competing with any other person. The only person they are in any sort of “competition” with is the person looking back in the mirror! They know that every person is living a story so unique that drawing comparisons would be an absurd and simplistic exercise in futility.
6) They don’t people-please
Women with absolute confidence have zero interest in pleasing every person. They are aware that not all people get along, and that’s just how life works. They focus on the quality of their relationships, instead of the quantity of them, they know that the word ‘No’ is a word of empowerment and the are comfortable telling people when they don’t want to do something.
7) They don’t make excuses
Women with absolute confidence don’t make excuses, they find a way. They take responsibility for their thoughts and actions.
Are you ready to learn how to stop doing these 7 things and start becoming more confident and happy? 🙂 YES!
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