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If you have low confidence, you are depriving yourself of happiness, success and the pleasure of living your life to the fullest! Find out how confident you are right now.

• The faith or trust in your abilities, decisions and intuition.
• A feeling of certainty, knowing that you are a valuable individual.
• Having unconditional trust, love and respect for yourself.

People with absolute confidence typically have little fear of the unknown, are able to stand up for what they believe in, and have the courage to risk embarrassment. Someone who is confident is not necessarily loud, outspoken, or reckless.

“You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’ You must do the thing you think you cannot do.”
- Eleanor Roosevelt (1884-1962)

Do you need more confidence in your…

• social interactions?
• work environment?
• dating life?
• SELF???

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#1 – Get a confidence coach or a mentor!
Spend time every day with confident people that you admire. You will be inspired by their strength, attitude and energy. It’s infectious! You will find that your confidence increases much quicker. Your level of happiness is directly related to the quality of the relationships in your life. Having a confidence coach in your life will enable you to make decisions that will improve your life and help you discover your inner strength.

#2 – Get to know your authentic self.
Having self-awareness is the first component of confidence.
Knowing and understanding all aspects of yourself including your values, beliefs, skills, talents, gifts, passions, goals, as well as your weaknesses and faults. Unfortunately, most people do NOT know enough about themselves to reach their highest potential, to determine their dream job or to live their lives in the most fulfilling and rewarding way.
The more you know and understand yourself, the better you are able to accept yourself or change yourself and the more confident you will become.

In order to develop your self-awareness, ask yourself the following questions:
1) Who am I?
2) What am I all about?
3) What can I do?
4) What can’t I do?

#3 – Remember your past achievements.
How great did it feel when you achieved a goal you set for yourself? You felt confident and fulfilled, right? Remember how good it felt to make a new friend, try a new activity or to get a promotion at work.

#4- Be open and willing to make positive changes in your life.
Set realistic and attainable goals for yourself that will bring positive change. Do you have negative thoughts and emotions or negative people in your life that are controlling and draining you? Start by “cleaning out” your negative thoughts and emotions. What negative things in your life do you want to rid yourself of? Make a list of the positive things you want in your life and be sure to give yourself a timeline. If the task of changing your negative thoughts and emotions seems a bit overwhelming, remember that most of the negative beliefs (as well as the negative people) that you have right now were put into your mind and/or life with your cooperation. You have the ability to change that! Change how you feel about yourself and your life and you will radiate happiness and contentment.

#5 – Visualize the confident you.
To achieve what you want in life, you have to believe it. I mean, REALLY believe it. If you can visualize yourself doing something you wish you could do, you are more likely to make it your reality because you’ll have confidence in your ability to succeed. The idea is to have these images or events taking place in your mind in vivid 3D with rich colors, like a dream, or as real as watching T.V. or a movie. The clearer the visualizations you have, the more likely you are to achieve the results you desire. When fearful or distracting images appear, re-focus on those positive images that evoke feelings of happiness and fulfillment.

#6 – Make a list, check it twice!
Write down 5 reasons why you want to be confident. List them in order of importance from 1 to 5. The numbers indicate the level of importance.

i.e. Do you want to be more comfortable meeting new people? Do you want to live a happier and more fulfilled life? Do you want a new job or a promotion? Etc.

#7 – Commit to your confidence.
If you have decided that you want to change your life and improve your confidence, do it now and don’t turn back! Go out and try something new, or go to that party or event that you’d usually skip and let others know you are there and that you have a lot to contribute. You’ll most likely make some new friends too! If you feel you would benefit from taking a course or getting a confidence coach, do it… you will not regret discovering your inner strength.

#8 – Be authentic.
Be warm, genuine and personable. These personality traits are a must when building confidence. If you are fake, other people are likely to sense this and may not be interested in meeting you or may reject you.

#9 – Always be open to learning and developing your confidence skills.
Try new activities, go out to meet and connect with new people. You could make a new friend! Your level of happiness is very closely tied to the quality of the relationships in your life. The more quality relationships that you have with great people that you connect with, the happier you will be. Smile at a stranger or better yet, strike up a conversation.

#10 – Do something today that scares you.
When we step outside of our comfort zone and take risks, we force ourselves to learn and grow.Fear robs us of our happiness and fulfillment. Be aware of of your old habits and be conscious and deliberate about stepping outside of your comfort zone.

Push yourself and give yourself a huge boost of confidence!

#11 – Never give up!
No one is confident all the time. Even the most confident people have doubts and fears about certain things. You are not alone.

The important thing to remember is that you MUST always strive to be the most confident person you can be. When you are confident, you feel great about yourself and your life. Whenever you feel unhappy or feel frustrated, do something that you know will be positive and effective. For me that’s doing something outdoors, listening to music,  looking at photos from the amazing adventures I’ve had in my life, or reading my Success Stories from my clients and students.

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Why is Confidence Important?

Have you ever noticed the girl that walks into the room and everyone notices her?

People are attracted to her and she easily strikes up conversations with anyone in the room.

SHE IS CONFIDENT!

When a confident person enters a room, people notice. They exude and project self-assurance and happiness. That confident person can introduce themselves to anyone, and engage everyone in conversation. They stand tall and proud and carry themselves with confidence.

Do you carry yourself with confidence?

How well you carry yourself and how confident you appear to others will more likely determine how you will be perceived than most all other aspects of your appearance. People enjoy being in the company of happy, confident people and are naturally attracted to them.

With confidence you can create the life you want!

We all deserve to be confident and happy. Most people have insecurities and desire more confidence. You are not alone.

Our confidence has a big impact on how we enjoy life. A lack of confidence can lead to many negative things in our lives such as fear, poor body image, eating disorders, alcohol and drug abuse, jealousy, defensiveness, procrastination, anxiety, violence, depression and sometimes even suicide. People who lack confidence are unable to achieve the level of happiness and success they desire. It is also usually the cause of most family breakups, poor parenting and relationship problems.

Being confident changes everything! Your relationships with people, how you communicate with others, your ability to get what you want from life, a successful working environment. People who love themselves and are confident radiate strength, passion and conviction. A confident woman is not afraid to be herself. She knows who she is. Her values, her purpose and her unique gifts.

Your confidence is NOT controlled by anyone else. That means that you have absolute control and can become confident at anytime in your life, regardless of your past life experiences! A lack of confidence is usually a result of being criticized, bullied or undermined as a child. These set backs do not have to be permanent; you can change your life RIGHT NOW!

Your confidence like an unused muscle that needs to be developed. And like any muscle, it never stays the same for any period of time. It will either get stronger or weaker depending on how you use it. When you build your confidence it’s like exercising a muscle. It relies on small, incremental improvement on a daily basis. You wouldn’t work out at the gym and expect to have perfect muscles for life in just a few hours. So, same idea with confidence… consistent confidence building is the only way to lasting confidence and happiness.

Many people will just settle with their current life and will not experience how incredibly rewarding it is to live a life filled with confidence, passion, purpose and enthusiasm because they lack the confidence and knowledge to do so. There is nothing wrong with wanting to feel better about yourself and to achieve more in life. Sometimes getting there is not easy and there are things that can happen along the way to make the path a lot longer and more difficult.

Building confidence must be something that you want to do for yourself, not for anyone else in your life. It’s never too late to become confident and live the life you’ve dreamed of! We all deserve to be happy and successful and that’s what having confidence is all about.

My Confidence Coaching aims to develop your confidence, skills, talents and strengths. I will help you overcome your self-limiting beliefs, fears, bad habits and negative patterns/habits and develop new positive ones. Whether it’s for business or for your social life, confidence is a skill which can be learned. And that’s what I do as a Confidence Coach. I will inspire and empower you to achieve your greatest potential with a new found purpose and a heightened sense of enthusiasm!

• Do you feel that you could do more with your life, but lack the confidence to get you there?
• Do you think that there is more out there for you than you are currently experiencing?
• Do you want to become more assertive and carry out what that “little voice in your head” is telling you to do?
• Do you want to not worry as much about what people think of you?
• Do you notice that confident girl in social settings and wish that could be you?
• Do you want to be able to approach others and communicate effectively?
• Do you want to become more popular?
• Are you lonely?

If you answered YES to any of these questions, then I can help you achieve the confidence and success you want.
You can change your life RIGHT NOW!

If you are ready to create REAL and LASTING positive change in your life and become the confident you, contact me today!